I was chatting on Facebook with an Orthodox Jewish woman, about 25, who’s never married. She explained to me the different categories she puts eligible guys into.
“Guys have only two categories for single women,” I said. “Those that make your pointer stand up and those that don’t. If a girl makes your pointer stand up, then you just have to assess whether or not you’re compatible. If a girl doesn’t make your pointer stand up, then it doesn’t matter how compatible you are.”
Most guys know within five seconds if he can get it up for the girl. If he can’t, there’s no point in dating.